In a survey on happiness, the happiness and wealth did not seem directly related, or that there is no proportional relationship. To be honest, China's Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen have been worse than any world city, China's continued double-digit rate Zeng The GTP is the distance between China and the world's developed countries rapidly reduced. However, why we do not feel happy and satisfied? Why are we always complaining about too much pressure, depression increased significantly?
because we have less of a stars does not matter. childhood, we parents can look forward to Jackie Chan as Fung grow around comes first, the patriarchal system of home training, so that young age we all are stronger than Biezulejin, all aspects, but this Desire is not directly shown, the teaching of Chinese modesty, the education of our out of shape by the pressure in the heart. Thus, every child in the setbacks, it can not properly treated, to obstruct, jealousy, so that others can not than I Well, not me strive to do better than others. can not do it, you'll imagine they are Monkey, to imagine that he is Bill Gates, this dark psychological cast.
era to 20 century, our generation has had their own children, our children's education is no less than our Shangbei good to go. because we are small by the Family Education and Family Style, this time has been fully reflected. own Bing How do not mix, so, an ancient brain down to the next generation to want him. from the child's name can be seen.
on the last Saturday morning, I took the dog to the farms. First it clear that I wrong, should not have brought the puppy to crowded places. This puppy is the original owner to the adoption center, I had it adopted. I can not get it full of trust, I overestimated its own control. in my pay, an old man holding two year old grandson came over to fondle the child babbling puppy, dog butt angry kid to the bite. Fortunately, , just a few teeth marks on children, no Popi, and no bleeding. this old man does not let go, I can only talk about things before and after, the end, like, other people's precious children, my dog bites, of course, that I bear the responsibility. So drove the children to the hospital, I asked the children to fight rabies vaccine. When the old man reported that child's name, the doctor and I were taken aback: a dry dragon! God, so scary. It seems that I got him gone and .
paid were not enough, since there are four needles, all I drove by the transfer. this Saturday morning, the old man hit on my door, my car, I said it three in the afternoon, I want to clean the morning. In the afternoon half past two, the door burst of mountain ring, the elderly and children and shouting at the door. I Xiaxing from napping, the heart beats wildly. stop stop stop, drive it. not that the thing three times and then pick ? people an emperor, to take my little old car, I should feel Sanshengyouxing, not to mention, is my little dog bit people do.
friends heard, and said that I should not so incompetent. I has given over fifty dollars on the fare, they could take the bus to go, He said all weekend, at least one of the parents of children at home.
I said I can do? one old and one less to hit home , said no, not push, focusing instead only end in disappointment, Who I would keep a stray puppy? I am a dog owner, these things I can, I suffer.
Internet search because the dog bite, saw the two section, one new to a place, there should be excited to be the second dog is in estrus, with a bad temper, easily angered. So, they send the dog to the vet, with no way out of its non-root. Although hit anesthesia, but after a local anesthetic, pain mouthful of dog saliva, flew at my arms, tears.
heart is tightness, but also really funny. I am sending two to see how to find you later I have trouble? things to do such a state, only the self from the advise. Fortunately, I volunteered for vaccination, if this would have happened if the emperor later, I was not even think about survival of the.
transfer is completed, sitting at home watching the length of the wound has been spoiled puppy, laugh and cry. can only strengthen its education, crowded places, we do not go! puppy Sidongfeidong. Maybe I played a role in the warmth of education, perhaps the was really very painful surgery, the dog obviously more docile. Oh, there is life, how so different? not that fighting back, please? owner disappointment, also from changing eunuchs puppy.
so think of a lot. Now is a child is a lifeline, see human nature is important, but Zhang Qian Long, Lijia Qing Wang Taizong is worrying. the name so obviously superior to the child, the child grew up carrying a man can not bear the pressure . Qianlong Emperor Xuan Ye, whose real name is no more than, emperor whose real name is known world, but also the people, but they accomplished the same feats, in turn, that is, you want to do great work, but also favorable factors all equipment, which groups are not descendants of an emperor, but, but no one dared to play a former emperor Emperor number. old white child's name last name is even more soil, dog eggs, soil roots, the old man said, so the name of cheap, good support. Now human hand, do not speak of this, and give him the names of scary, one is rooted emperor.
the final analysis, that is, without a sense of normalcy. too satisfied with the status quo, then put the child as his own successor . everyone knows, the child's own children's age, the child itself is an autonomous individual, the burden of excessive pressure to the children, and adults'd Ah Q was a greatly enjoyable one back, child? children what will be heavy and distorted mentality, do not know these parents thought not.
Maybe they simply did not think. they live in contentment from the music, the possessor of the emperor in the home, doing contented dreams.
the final analysis, or a no sense of balance. ungrateful, do not think back to society, society does not always feel fair, his parents did not expect, like to succeed. to give children a name meaning nothing to criticize, but so straightforward, it is called, children do not know will not feel ashamed of big?
ago I was in that state of mind in no sense of normalcy after a few years. Seeing that have aged to the so-called success has not even a shadow. this time to think about, Chan Cheng phoenix, after all, is rare, most people are living a plain life, in their own mundane lives, enjoying the peaceful and beautiful life. Thus, peace of mind engaged in ordinary work, bringing the peace of mind is not how well daughter, confidently adopt a problem dog, scattered to nothing, walk, look at the child's work, with the teacher call you, ask the child's behavior, Yang Yang flower pots are not expensive, take cleaning, on the Internet, chatting with some friends, but also fun. life suddenly become lush and is no longer expect great things will happen tomorrow, step by step, the music is also Tao Tao.
I used to not like . In the past I am hypocritical, very lofty, do not know who in the end. So numerous and fallen down in life, but can not find the reason. Fortunately, I can reflect on, more fortunate, I met a lifelong mentor : British children. British children are very good, with a beauty at the same time, have more wisdom, is her concern for me step by step, pointing at me, in my confusion, explore, she brushed aside the fog, so I have a lot of specious concepts, ideas, clear step by step clear up. I am dissatisfied with my work, she said, what can you do? Perhaps you have talent, but if I am your leader, I have to see your results before You will be reused, then you a little bit better today than yesterday, to a little bit better than the people around them, not too much, too many will overwhelm you, so over time, one day, you will find that you have not you used to people around will find that you still have strength. She taught me in plain life, enjoy the gift of life, feel the warm sunshine, listening to the birds early in the morning, I work in a calm, in gratitude Ecology in a step by step transformation into Four year-old woman motivated but Contentment.
I say, life to four years old to live just a taste. Because, I have normal, to moderate in peace , feel the sweet life.
this society is relatively fair. I deeply understand the meaning of her words.
I certainly did not escape. birth to a daughter, would have thought were neat, in a next life Chu, and secondly also hope that she very lovely, and later, her father and grandparents all do not agree, Michelle called her name. I heard reminded of the hardy Zhou Xuan, spare us, let her mundane to long big girls do a good character on the line. So, simply a custom in the end, single-word name of a Jane, in English called Jenny, she is divine in my treasure, cherish the hope that she were born to this world, as can be whether the community's treasure, all is her own, got the treasure himself, reverence for life, the world will win people's respect. Thus, the education of her young age is: do not ask you Jackie Chan into a phoenix, but that you become a good character people!
daughter did do this, high school head teacher, said: This child is not particularly good especially smart, but very sensible very hard, all of our classroom teachers, no one criticized her . I would like enough! the university entrance exam this year, only got two second-class, of course I have lost, but better than some worse than, go to college on the good, at least she was a sensible child, conduct reliable than whatever. I have only this talent, family economic conditions, so it was, so she could have done his best.
this way, my sense of balance once again my contentment and gratitude.
But thinking, we are in this Fuzao times, indeed with our traditional culture, too hopeful about. ancients had a saying: how can you sweep a room does not sweep the world, and now more people are never sweep a room, because their hearts sweep the world that he is Lord. complaints Fuzao, no spirit, no sense of team, behind closed doors the emperor, all day long that point only of the interests of their own, personal gain, envy, persists in the form, to obstruct behind that of people ill, these problems are all traditional. We can not exempt the parents of a generation, so that we have such a rich life at the same time, spiritual but not up a little too happy, but we do not know reflection parents generation pressure on us, cause we are not happy, is not successful things, he pressed him on the next generation. our generation, and brothers and sisters, this can not, there are other children for their parents expect, but we But most of the next generation of single one, this pressure, called the children how to take?!
me, there is no ordinary youth, good looks do not have much money, no nothing how high social status of a woman, and one with plain cheesy the name of the daughter, there is a good question to be education, dog, is calm and grateful to be alive. and happy, but it seems to be around us.
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